Thinking About Those Who Have Gone On

Several asked me about the poem I wrote in memory of Mary Hoffman and read at her funeral and the suggestion was made to me to print it in the bulletin. The thoughts offered in this poem can just as well relate to others of our brothers and sisters who have departed this life. Their memories linger with us and their lives inspire us for, as faithful Children of God, the words of Revelation 14:13, “Blessed are those who die in the Lord…….their deeds follow with them” are so appropriate.

IT'S HARD TO LET YOU GO...BUT...
It's hard to let you go because there'll be an empty spot.
We'll look for you in all the places where you're not.
But... we'll still see you there in the memory of our heart,
For no one or nothing else will ever take your part.
It's hard to let you go because you've always been right there,
And now the place you filled will sadly be too bare.
But..., then again, that place will always show us you,
And remind us of the things that you would always do.
It's hard to let you go because we would want you here
To be with us and share with us and help to calm our fear.
But... then we give thanks for you and all the many years
You cared for us, loving us, even as you shed your tears.
It's hard to let you go, but then again, despite the pain,
Though you're not here, our loss is heaven's gain.
So now, although in sadness, but with all your family's love,
We send you with our blessings to your Father up above.

Tony Lalli - 9/13/08
In honor of Mary Hoffman

See you when the saints meet, Lord willing.

Love, Tony